somewhat swimming related

When she asks, "Does this dress make my butt look big?" No, it's your butt that makes your butt look big! (that is a joke, I really do know all the right answers to these type questions ;) Which brings me to another point... why do some women wear clothes that they have no business wearing. Like trying to stuff 10 lbs of potatoes into a 5 lb. sack. Men, I know are guilty of the same things. But... I saw a fairly plus size lady in Wal Mart (that's where you'll usually see many a clothing faux pas) She had on a tube top and low rise jeans - Looked like a can of bisquits that had popped open in the middle!! Please, no one take me too seriously!

Originally posted by shoalsswimmer When she asks, "Does this dress make my butt look big?" No, it's your butt that makes your butt look big! (that is a joke, I really do know all the right answers to these type questions ;) Which brings me to another point... why do some women wear clothes that they have no business wearing. Like trying to stuff 10 lbs of potatoes into a 5 lb. sack. Men, I know are guilty of the same things. But... I saw a fairly plus size lady in Wal Mart (that's where you'll usually see many a clothing faux pas) She had on a tube top and low rise jeans - Looked like a can of bisquits that had popped open in the middle!! Please, no one take me too seriously! I know of the people you are reffering to but I generally feel sorry for them. Being like that is a nightmare for me so I can only imagine what it must be like for them.

Which brings me to another point... why do some women wear clothes that they have no business wearing. Like trying to stuff 10 lbs of potatoes into a 5 lb. sack. Men, I know are guilty of the same things. But... Yeah, I have the same problem with my speedo, but what's a guy to do... :D Worse yet, I have a picture of some granny daisy dukes. Talk about not right. And spandex.. BAD! VERY BAD!!! Seriously, at the gym it doesn't bother me. If that's what motivates you, go for it. But in public places, just dress appropriately. I have plenty of big friends, but they don't walk around w/o a shirt. And I am a hairy b#$%&#d, so I try to stay clothed as much as possible. Nobody needs to see sasquatch boy either.

Hey Connie, I've been busted many times "accidentally" looking in the direction of an attractive woman. My wife looks at me and I just smile. You know what I tell her? "There is no way I could love another woman as much as you and besides there is no way she can be as sexy and sweet as you!" I have a cool wife - she tells me that she can appreciate a pretty woman and frequently point them out to me! I love her!

Originally posted by shoalsswimmer I've been busted many times "accidentally" looking in the direction of an attractive woman. My wife looks at me and I just smile. My wife says if you stop looking what good are you to me!

I don't mind it much when a guy looks, well, as long as it's a glance. I know guys look. Now if he waqs gawking or flirting with her, i'd think it's rude. I explained this to one of my guy friends, it's not the looking or noticing other women that is really bothersome, it's when we feel neglected at home, and then see or catch you doing what seems like you spending your efforts elsewhere that becomes an issue. You her enough about how guys want to spread it around, and how they'll get bored of you eventually etc.. Then when there's not attention or affection at home, and you see hi notice something or someoneelse that you think I guess it's that time. Or, the way somew guys do it, you end up feeling like you have to compete with whatever else they're noticing. Not all guys do that. Like the comment you made, about appreciating your wife, well, when you know and feel secure that he's not out there looking with ulterior motives, then it's easy to notice and comment, cause you don't end up feeling threathened. okay... how did this turn into a serious dating/relationship advice column all of a sudden ;)

Not my saying but... It doesn't matter where you get your appetite as long as you eat at home.:D

hahah ... my ex used to be obsessed with Britney Spears I used to call him when she would be on TV for something ... I had a crush on one of the Cubs players and he used to get really upset when we'd go to games and I'd say oh, he's playing. He'd get so pissy ... like I was going to run off with the player or something ... now Aaron Peirsol is another story ;)

Originally posted by Fishgrrl Speaking of visual...check out this website: www.awfulplasticsurgery.com LOL!! AAAHHHH!!!! Those are kinda scary (but I disagree with Natalie Portman she's adorable).

I wouldn't even worry about calling girls "guys". I do it all the time. An easy way to avoid it is just call everyone Dude. I'm convinced that dude is the world's most versitile word. Not dudette though, that really bothers me for some reason. It's like the song: "I'm a dude He's a dude She's a dude We're all dudes..HEY!!"