somewhat swimming related

Did you see paris hilton's new Carl's JR Spicy BBQ burger commercial? It's somewhat swimming related, she's wearing a swim suit and there's water you can see it at: http://www.spicyparis.com Ande
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    I don't mind it much when a guy looks, well, as long as it's a glance. I know guys look. Now if he waqs gawking or flirting with her, i'd think it's rude. I explained this to one of my guy friends, it's not the looking or noticing other women that is really bothersome, it's when we feel neglected at home, and then see or catch you doing what seems like you spending your efforts elsewhere that becomes an issue. You her enough about how guys want to spread it around, and how they'll get bored of you eventually etc.. Then when there's not attention or affection at home, and you see hi notice something or someoneelse that you think I guess it's that time. Or, the way somew guys do it, you end up feeling like you have to compete with whatever else they're noticing. Not all guys do that. Like the comment you made, about appreciating your wife, well, when you know and feel secure that he's not out there looking with ulterior motives, then it's easy to notice and comment, cause you don't end up feeling threathened. okay... how did this turn into a serious dating/relationship advice column all of a sudden ;)
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  • Former Member
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    I don't mind it much when a guy looks, well, as long as it's a glance. I know guys look. Now if he waqs gawking or flirting with her, i'd think it's rude. I explained this to one of my guy friends, it's not the looking or noticing other women that is really bothersome, it's when we feel neglected at home, and then see or catch you doing what seems like you spending your efforts elsewhere that becomes an issue. You her enough about how guys want to spread it around, and how they'll get bored of you eventually etc.. Then when there's not attention or affection at home, and you see hi notice something or someoneelse that you think I guess it's that time. Or, the way somew guys do it, you end up feeling like you have to compete with whatever else they're noticing. Not all guys do that. Like the comment you made, about appreciating your wife, well, when you know and feel secure that he's not out there looking with ulterior motives, then it's easy to notice and comment, cause you don't end up feeling threathened. okay... how did this turn into a serious dating/relationship advice column all of a sudden ;)
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