I have been recently advised both verbally and with a single finger involved that if I don't stop swimming/running/biking/goofing/etc so much that there is a distinct chance I could meet my next wife via swimming.
I have been recently advised both verbally and with a single finger involved that if I don't stop swimming/running/biking/goofing/etc so much that there is a distinct chance I could meet my next wife via swimming.