I just became the coach of my first swim team, and I, being a male, am having a hard time with the whole period thing. My girls are middle school level, and a little shy about the subject, as am I. Now, I know that you can swim on your period by using a tampon, but they cringed at the idea. However, on a 20 girl team, I've got as many as 6-7 girls sitting out daily because of it. I know that's far FAR too high. I'm about this close to going out and buying a box of tampons to shove in their face if they don't dress.
So my questions are:
How necessary is it that you wear a tampon? Is it an every day thing? are there times when it's worse than others?
And, how can I easily make the lives of the swimmers who don't swim (and keep in mind it has to be for a group of 6-7 people) a living hell. I need a dry land work out that can be done on the pool deck that takes little effort to watch (so I can coach the other girls) and something they can't really slack off - I keep giving them push ups and they barely go down.
I really can't think of anything outside of making the actual swim session fun, so if you guys have ideas on how to do that too it might work, too. It need to work on something important though.
I am very torn on this.
I have had tampons fail and know the embarrassment that comes with it.I also know that swimming actually makes it easier to deal with the cramping and makes me generally feel better afterwards.
But after my little mishap I am always paranoid while I swim and upon exiting the pool, and I seriously can't relax anymore. So on the worst days it just is not worth the trouble.
I also have a 10 year old that I am praying won't have to deal with this until she is in her mid teens, but you bet that I will talk to her that it is not something to be used "lightly" as an excuse.
Good luck on your 10 year old. I thought my daughter would be much older because she was teeny tiny. Nope, 2 months after her 12th birthday and then her body changed in another 2 months(shocking her poor dad). I think it is more dependant on genetics than size of body.
I am very torn on this.
I have had tampons fail and know the embarrassment that comes with it.I also know that swimming actually makes it easier to deal with the cramping and makes me generally feel better afterwards.
But after my little mishap I am always paranoid while I swim and upon exiting the pool, and I seriously can't relax anymore. So on the worst days it just is not worth the trouble.
I also have a 10 year old that I am praying won't have to deal with this until she is in her mid teens, but you bet that I will talk to her that it is not something to be used "lightly" as an excuse.
Good luck on your 10 year old. I thought my daughter would be much older because she was teeny tiny. Nope, 2 months after her 12th birthday and then her body changed in another 2 months(shocking her poor dad). I think it is more dependant on genetics than size of body.