NSR: Message Board Etiquette

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There is nothing that wrecks a good swimming related thread faster than getting into a discussion about message board etiquette. So here is a thread that people can use discuss topics related to what should and should not be posted on the message boards while allowing the other threads to stay on topic. It seems to me that there is a spectrum of opinion on off-topic posting. On one end of the spectrum people think that threads are a mechanism specifically designed to allow people to carry on discussions on different topics and that we would all be well served if changes in topic were just done in new threads. On the other end of the spectrum people think that people should be able to post anything they want anywhere they want and that any suggestion to the contrary is censorship, a personal attack, or simply control freakish. Pretty much everyone falls somewhere between these two extremes. Very few people object to a humorous quip inserted here and there in an otherwise serious discussion. Very few people would actually advocate that people be able to liberally sprinkle potentially offensive posts randomly through all the threads. Have you ever been at a party where someone has decided that this is the right time and place to have a big argument or screaming match with someone? Has it ever contributed to the general enjoyment of the rest of the people there? I would argue that posts that are essentially expressions of anger and/or are essentially personal attacks have no place on the board. They don't contribute anything positive and generally turn off 99% of the people reading the boards. Even if it seems that someone else has attacked you, does it really help anything to post an angry response? I personally don't see the problem with starting a new thread when one wants to make an off-topic comment, a little cut and paste and/or a link makes it easy enough to carry the context into the new thread. Why is it essential to be able to carry on an unrelated discussion in a thread where some people are trying to carry on a discussion on a particular topic?
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    You don't mess with family, even swim family. That's a big no-no in my book. And I don't like being stopped in the middle of a set because someone one lane over doesn't want to the set, because they are lazy. Other than that I am a peach 90% of the time ... the other 10% being in the very early AM hours ... Oh I was a feisty sista tonight!! The life guard starts flagging at me from the edge...with my ears full of water, this girl is whispering to me, and I'm treading water now having lost my count of laps my stroke rhythm and am just irritated because I was concentrating on bilateral breathing etc. I am all "What?" "What. I can't hear you?" and "You're interrupting my work-out!" I was quite the Diva! I finally got the message...she wanted me to move over because now it was "open swim time in my lane." I tried to swim the length back to shallow end where I entered...but had become so discomboulated that I stood up about 10ft out cursing under my breath and flung my vanquishers on the deck in annoyance. Well sure it's open swim..all 2 of them but what about the noodler-poodlers in the fast and moderate lanes...tell them to apple bob in open swim then. GRR
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    You don't mess with family, even swim family. That's a big no-no in my book. And I don't like being stopped in the middle of a set because someone one lane over doesn't want to the set, because they are lazy. Other than that I am a peach 90% of the time ... the other 10% being in the very early AM hours ... Oh I was a feisty sista tonight!! The life guard starts flagging at me from the edge...with my ears full of water, this girl is whispering to me, and I'm treading water now having lost my count of laps my stroke rhythm and am just irritated because I was concentrating on bilateral breathing etc. I am all "What?" "What. I can't hear you?" and "You're interrupting my work-out!" I was quite the Diva! I finally got the message...she wanted me to move over because now it was "open swim time in my lane." I tried to swim the length back to shallow end where I entered...but had become so discomboulated that I stood up about 10ft out cursing under my breath and flung my vanquishers on the deck in annoyance. Well sure it's open swim..all 2 of them but what about the noodler-poodlers in the fast and moderate lanes...tell them to apple bob in open swim then. GRR
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