There is nothing that wrecks a good swimming related thread faster than getting into a discussion about message board etiquette. So here is a thread that people can use discuss topics related to what should and should not be posted on the message boards while allowing the other threads to stay on topic.
It seems to me that there is a spectrum of opinion on off-topic posting. On one end of the spectrum people think that threads are a mechanism specifically designed to allow people to carry on discussions on different topics and that we would all be well served if changes in topic were just done in new threads. On the other end of the spectrum people think that people should be able to post anything they want anywhere they want and that any suggestion to the contrary is censorship, a personal attack, or simply control freakish.
Pretty much everyone falls somewhere between these two extremes. Very few people object to a humorous quip inserted here and there in an otherwise serious discussion. Very few people would actually advocate that people be able to liberally sprinkle potentially offensive posts randomly through all the threads.
Have you ever been at a party where someone has decided that this is the right time and place to have a big argument or screaming match with someone? Has it ever contributed to the general enjoyment of the rest of the people there?
I would argue that posts that are essentially expressions of anger and/or are essentially personal attacks have no place on the board. They don't contribute anything positive and generally turn off 99% of the people reading the boards. Even if it seems that someone else has attacked you, does it really help anything to post an angry response?
I personally don't see the problem with starting a new thread when one wants to make an off-topic comment, a little cut and paste and/or a link makes it easy enough to carry the context into the new thread. Why is it essential to be able to carry on an unrelated discussion in a thread where some people are trying to carry on a discussion on a particular topic?
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Ok, here's my thought...
Start an NSR thread (or two) to try and ease tension. The sillys try to watch what they say on SR threads, and keep it as much as possible in the NSR labeled threads. But realize that it's controlling and unreasonable to believe that every NSR comment will make it to these threads. The sillys try to refrain from thread hijacking and if it starts to go far, then a GENTLE POLITE nudge back on topic and possible move to the NSR threads. All personal attacks stop, and the argument about NSR v. SR eases up and hopefully fades away.
These are just my two cents. I hope no one sees it as controlling and my silly bohemian brothers and sisters don't think it's a sellout. Feel free to debate and add ideas, or PM me if you have a big issue, but I for one am tired of this seemingly never ending debate when a solution that makes everybody happy seems relatively easy without any one having to sacrifice too much.
Well...now that I got that off my chest back to my homework....:frustrated: .....
Ok, here's my thought...
Start an NSR thread (or two) to try and ease tension. The sillys try to watch what they say on SR threads, and keep it as much as possible in the NSR labeled threads. But realize that it's controlling and unreasonable to believe that every NSR comment will make it to these threads. The sillys try to refrain from thread hijacking and if it starts to go far, then a GENTLE POLITE nudge back on topic and possible move to the NSR threads. All personal attacks stop, and the argument about NSR v. SR eases up and hopefully fades away.
These are just my two cents. I hope no one sees it as controlling and my silly bohemian brothers and sisters don't think it's a sellout. Feel free to debate and add ideas, or PM me if you have a big issue, but I for one am tired of this seemingly never ending debate when a solution that makes everybody happy seems relatively easy without any one having to sacrifice too much.
Well...now that I got that off my chest back to my homework....:frustrated: .....
