I think it is sad we have slipped down the slope we call “being civil”. Being away from these posts for the better part of a week has allowed me to look at them in a different light then before. The thoughts and feelings of many of the people who post here are very raw right now. Decency, understanding, compassion, patience and kindness have been lost to pain and anger.
I have learned some very valuable lessons over the past nineteen months. Often, anger is directly driven by pain. I read pain into many of the post here. People have offended one another and tramped on each others toes and people have been hurt emotionally.
Gosh, I am the farthest thing from a counselor or referee for that matter, but I am qualified to say that each of us has good days, and each of us has bad days. Without exception, EVERY SINGLE POSTER was decent, understanding and compassionate towards me during a very tough time in my life. Ion has a way of invoking anger and hostility in people. Having said that, he reached out to me during a very tough time and demonstrated a very different and compassionate side then the one we see here.
My point, in the final annalists we call life, what more do we really have then one another? We are a body of swimmers who share a common bond for the love of swimming and adult exercise in the water. Let us keep to this course as opposed to offending one another and fracturing our beloved sport with pain, hard feelings and anger. We are different, yet, we are the same. We all love our children, we all want to excel in life, we all want to think of ourselves are winners, we all want to be free people, we all want to raise our families and enjoy life as best we can. Regardless of how fast we are, how smart we are or anything else…. in the final toll….we all want and strive for many of the same things. As we all did on playgrounds all over the world as children, let’s shake hands and make up….
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Excellent Post Bert.
I get such joy out of each workout, each goal, each challenge.
Each day I swim, for I simply love to swim. And I love to share that joy and success with others. To get others to reach out for new goals.
I don't take my health for granted, so I treasure each day that I am able to achieve. There will always be someone better, someone who will motivate and inspire no matter what their abilities. My swimming book is filled with autographs of my 'heros'. A mix of all sorts of swimmers, including a 95 year old who did an 800 at the World Champs, popped out of the water in a sprightly energetic way, and walked off completely independently, climbed out the steps, ducked under the rope barrier no cane, glasses,or hearing aid, and with an enormous smile even though she couldn't speak any English. She knew what she meant to me.
Time isn't the object. Living life well, enjoying life, keeping a balance and achieving a goal.
As they say in a certain ad. It's priceless. And best of all, no one can take that feeling away. No one. Not Ever. :)
Excellent Post Bert.
I get such joy out of each workout, each goal, each challenge.
Each day I swim, for I simply love to swim. And I love to share that joy and success with others. To get others to reach out for new goals.
I don't take my health for granted, so I treasure each day that I am able to achieve. There will always be someone better, someone who will motivate and inspire no matter what their abilities. My swimming book is filled with autographs of my 'heros'. A mix of all sorts of swimmers, including a 95 year old who did an 800 at the World Champs, popped out of the water in a sprightly energetic way, and walked off completely independently, climbed out the steps, ducked under the rope barrier no cane, glasses,or hearing aid, and with an enormous smile even though she couldn't speak any English. She knew what she meant to me.
Time isn't the object. Living life well, enjoying life, keeping a balance and achieving a goal.
As they say in a certain ad. It's priceless. And best of all, no one can take that feeling away. No one. Not Ever. :)
