How do you all feel about parents side coaching kids (10 to 18 years old)?
Is there any time in which you feel side coaching is justified?
I'd love to hear from those of you who are parents of swimmers and admit to have done this before. Where do you draw the line? Do you keep it hidden from your kids coach? Do you agree that most of the best youth swimmers have been side coached to some extent?
Interesting question.:cheerleader:
this was interesting and useful
THE SPORT OF SWIMMING
The sport of swimming has many benefits, including the people the parent and child will meet. The camaraderie among swimmers is unique; many swimming buddies become life-long friends. In addition to being around fine people, swimming provides one of the most beneficial forms of exercise for cardiovascular and overall fitness. This exercise can be enjoyed throughout one's entire life. For example, we have had swimmers in their nineties setting "masters" world records.
Possibly the greatest benefits of participating in an organized swim program are the life skills your child will develop. These skills include time management, self discipline and sportsmanship. Your child will reap the benefits of swimming long after his/her participation ends. Most swimmers go on to be very successful and productive adults largely due to what they gained from swimming.
Age group swimming can be fun, exciting and rewarding. Many children improve rapidly and it is not unusual to see big time drops during this phase. Children are learning and growing at a greater rate than any other time in their careers. It is difficult to avoid the tendency to push young athletes at his stage. Although a child of eleven or twelve can handle the physical demands of serious water training, most coaches feel that the workload should not be great until a child reaches puberty. The emphasis should be placed on improving stroke technique. It is strongly recommended that these young athletes participate in other sports during this period. Participating in other sporting activities provides children with a variety and can help prevent "burnout". Many swimmers train for more than ten years during their careers. Swimming, especially at the youngest levels, should be fun and relatively pressure free.
After a child reaches puberty, scientists and coaches feel serious training can begin. This can be a particularly frustrating time for swimmers. During this transition from age group swimming to senior swimming an athlete may experience a plateau or what appears to be a "setback". Chunks of time are no longer being dropped, and the training requires more time and dedication. Many parents begin to question whether a child's swimming career is over at this point. This, coupled with the normal demands of teenage life, causes many swimmers to leave the sport prematurely. It is critical that parents and coaches be very supportive during this period of adjustment, realizing that it will pass. Future performance improvements generally follow.
The above is designed to help you help your child succeed in swimming. Remember, not every swimmer becomes a world record holder, but everyone gains from their swimming experience. Supporting your child in swimming can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life. You will soon find yourself cheering at competitions, timing during the meets (the best place to see the meet) or even going on to become a US Swimming certified official. Whatever your role, your child's experience in swimming has much to do with your positive support. Please ask questions of your coaches, officials and fellow parents, we all have the same goal; to provide the children with the best possible experience in swimming.
The Parents' Role
Competitive swimming allows the swimmer to experience success and to learn how to deal with defeat, while becoming healthy and physically fit. As a parent, your major responsibility is to provide a stable, loving and supportive environment. This positive environment will encourage your child to continue. Show your interest by ensuring your child's attendance at practices and coming to the meets.
Parents are not participants on their child's team but contribute to the success experienced by the child and his/her team. Parents serve as role models and their attitudes are often emulated by their children. Be aware of this and strive to be positive role models by showing good sportsmanship at all times towards coaches, officials, opponents and teammates.
Be enthusiastic and supportive - Remember that your child is the swimmer. Children need to establish their own goals and make their own progress towards them. Be careful not to impose your own standards and goals.
Do not over burden your child with winning or achieving best times. The most important part of your child's swimming experience is that he/she learn about him/herself while enjoying the sport. This healthy environment encourages learning and fun which will develop a positive self-image within your child.
Let the Coach, coach - The best way to help a child achieve his/her goals and reduce the natural fear of failure is through positive reinforcement. No one likes to make a mistake. If your child does make one, remember that he/she is still learning. Encourage his/her efforts and point the things he/she did well. As long as he/she gave their best effort, you should make him/her feel like a winner.
from www.aggieswimclub.org/.../SportofSwimming.htm
WHAT TO EXPECT AT A MEET -
A Guide for Parents and Swimmers
Get to the swim meet approximately 15-20 minutes before the beginning of the assigned warm-up time. The Ags’ warm-up times will be listed on our website three days prior to the meet. Be ready to get in the pool promptly—warm up is short and usually crowded.
Find the CLERK of COURSE and CIRCLE IN all of your swimmer’s events. Bring a pen or pencil to the meet. (If your swimmer is not circled in for an event, he/she will be scratched and will be unable to swim that event).
Swimmers from the team sit together in a team area near the pool. (Depending upon the meet location, sometimes swimmers and parents can sit together). Parents sit together in the stands. (No parents are usually allowed on the pool deck). It is advisable to bring a couple of lawn chairs or an old blanket to sit on. Some pools have easy access to outdoor areas and may also have bleachers.
Parents should purchase a heat sheet ($5-$10) in order to follow what event is being swum. The heat sheets usually have a calculated time for all the swimming events.
Warm up times and lanes are assigned prior to the meet and are listed in the heat sheet. The swimmers should warm-up with their swim coach. If the coach is not available, a swimmer may (with permission) warm-up with another team and its coaches.
Approximately thirty minutes prior to an event being swum, lane and heat assignments are posted. Swimmers MUST go look at this information!!
Swimmers are responsible for getting themselves up to the event and heat. New swimmers may sometimes be assisted to the area behind their swim block by their swim coach. There is NO READY BENCH in USA Swimming!!
Current events and heat numbers may not be announced over the loud speaker…...parents and swimmers must pay attention!! If a swimmer circles-in for his/her event but does not report to swim the event or misses the event there is a $5.00 fine imposed by Gulf Swimming at the end of each season (May and July) for each no-show event.
After the swimmer finishes his/her event, he/she should always go talk with his/her coach. Results are posted after each event that has been swum.
SWIM FAST AND HAVE FUN!!
from Aggie Swim Club
this was interesting and useful
THE SPORT OF SWIMMING
The sport of swimming has many benefits, including the people the parent and child will meet. The camaraderie among swimmers is unique; many swimming buddies become life-long friends. In addition to being around fine people, swimming provides one of the most beneficial forms of exercise for cardiovascular and overall fitness. This exercise can be enjoyed throughout one's entire life. For example, we have had swimmers in their nineties setting "masters" world records.
Possibly the greatest benefits of participating in an organized swim program are the life skills your child will develop. These skills include time management, self discipline and sportsmanship. Your child will reap the benefits of swimming long after his/her participation ends. Most swimmers go on to be very successful and productive adults largely due to what they gained from swimming.
Age group swimming can be fun, exciting and rewarding. Many children improve rapidly and it is not unusual to see big time drops during this phase. Children are learning and growing at a greater rate than any other time in their careers. It is difficult to avoid the tendency to push young athletes at his stage. Although a child of eleven or twelve can handle the physical demands of serious water training, most coaches feel that the workload should not be great until a child reaches puberty. The emphasis should be placed on improving stroke technique. It is strongly recommended that these young athletes participate in other sports during this period. Participating in other sporting activities provides children with a variety and can help prevent "burnout". Many swimmers train for more than ten years during their careers. Swimming, especially at the youngest levels, should be fun and relatively pressure free.
After a child reaches puberty, scientists and coaches feel serious training can begin. This can be a particularly frustrating time for swimmers. During this transition from age group swimming to senior swimming an athlete may experience a plateau or what appears to be a "setback". Chunks of time are no longer being dropped, and the training requires more time and dedication. Many parents begin to question whether a child's swimming career is over at this point. This, coupled with the normal demands of teenage life, causes many swimmers to leave the sport prematurely. It is critical that parents and coaches be very supportive during this period of adjustment, realizing that it will pass. Future performance improvements generally follow.
The above is designed to help you help your child succeed in swimming. Remember, not every swimmer becomes a world record holder, but everyone gains from their swimming experience. Supporting your child in swimming can be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life. You will soon find yourself cheering at competitions, timing during the meets (the best place to see the meet) or even going on to become a US Swimming certified official. Whatever your role, your child's experience in swimming has much to do with your positive support. Please ask questions of your coaches, officials and fellow parents, we all have the same goal; to provide the children with the best possible experience in swimming.
The Parents' Role
Competitive swimming allows the swimmer to experience success and to learn how to deal with defeat, while becoming healthy and physically fit. As a parent, your major responsibility is to provide a stable, loving and supportive environment. This positive environment will encourage your child to continue. Show your interest by ensuring your child's attendance at practices and coming to the meets.
Parents are not participants on their child's team but contribute to the success experienced by the child and his/her team. Parents serve as role models and their attitudes are often emulated by their children. Be aware of this and strive to be positive role models by showing good sportsmanship at all times towards coaches, officials, opponents and teammates.
Be enthusiastic and supportive - Remember that your child is the swimmer. Children need to establish their own goals and make their own progress towards them. Be careful not to impose your own standards and goals.
Do not over burden your child with winning or achieving best times. The most important part of your child's swimming experience is that he/she learn about him/herself while enjoying the sport. This healthy environment encourages learning and fun which will develop a positive self-image within your child.
Let the Coach, coach - The best way to help a child achieve his/her goals and reduce the natural fear of failure is through positive reinforcement. No one likes to make a mistake. If your child does make one, remember that he/she is still learning. Encourage his/her efforts and point the things he/she did well. As long as he/she gave their best effort, you should make him/her feel like a winner.
from www.aggieswimclub.org/.../SportofSwimming.htm
WHAT TO EXPECT AT A MEET -
A Guide for Parents and Swimmers
Get to the swim meet approximately 15-20 minutes before the beginning of the assigned warm-up time. The Ags’ warm-up times will be listed on our website three days prior to the meet. Be ready to get in the pool promptly—warm up is short and usually crowded.
Find the CLERK of COURSE and CIRCLE IN all of your swimmer’s events. Bring a pen or pencil to the meet. (If your swimmer is not circled in for an event, he/she will be scratched and will be unable to swim that event).
Swimmers from the team sit together in a team area near the pool. (Depending upon the meet location, sometimes swimmers and parents can sit together). Parents sit together in the stands. (No parents are usually allowed on the pool deck). It is advisable to bring a couple of lawn chairs or an old blanket to sit on. Some pools have easy access to outdoor areas and may also have bleachers.
Parents should purchase a heat sheet ($5-$10) in order to follow what event is being swum. The heat sheets usually have a calculated time for all the swimming events.
Warm up times and lanes are assigned prior to the meet and are listed in the heat sheet. The swimmers should warm-up with their swim coach. If the coach is not available, a swimmer may (with permission) warm-up with another team and its coaches.
Approximately thirty minutes prior to an event being swum, lane and heat assignments are posted. Swimmers MUST go look at this information!!
Swimmers are responsible for getting themselves up to the event and heat. New swimmers may sometimes be assisted to the area behind their swim block by their swim coach. There is NO READY BENCH in USA Swimming!!
Current events and heat numbers may not be announced over the loud speaker…...parents and swimmers must pay attention!! If a swimmer circles-in for his/her event but does not report to swim the event or misses the event there is a $5.00 fine imposed by Gulf Swimming at the end of each season (May and July) for each no-show event.
After the swimmer finishes his/her event, he/she should always go talk with his/her coach. Results are posted after each event that has been swum.
SWIM FAST AND HAVE FUN!!
from Aggie Swim Club