Would you consider swimming to be a self-involved hobby?
I read an article that said.
"He may be a workaholic, a womanizer, hooked on TV, caught in addictions or self-involved hobbies."
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Even though my husband wants no part of swimming, he's very supportive of my swimming. I also use swimming as a way to control my anxiety, so he actually encourages me to swim everyday. I'm actually not a very nice person, if I don't get my daily swim.
I don't see how taking an hour or so a day for yourself is selfish. I just feel so much more centered after a swim, and I'm able to focus on my family and tasks so much better afterward.
Even though my husband wants no part of swimming, he's very supportive of my swimming. I also use swimming as a way to control my anxiety, so he actually encourages me to swim everyday. I'm actually not a very nice person, if I don't get my daily swim.
I don't see how taking an hour or so a day for yourself is selfish. I just feel so much more centered after a swim, and I'm able to focus on my family and tasks so much better afterward.