Extra marital affairs in masters swimming have happened and will continue to happen. When two people share a common interest and spend time together, bonding takes place and sometimes emotional and physical affairs result. There's plenty of opportunity around training and even more at meets & conventions.
Sometimes these affairs are just one night drunken flings. Sometimes they are long term.
Did your affair help your swimming or hurt it?
Did it add extra stress to your life?
How did you deal with all the emotions from it?
How did it start? How did it end? When did it change?
Create an alias or not and share your or a friend's story/ies here.
Guess we need to keep our language pg.
I've only participated in 14 or 15 affairs myself in relation to swimming. Usually they happen when groups of swimmers go to meets so they're only 1-2 night deals. That's ideal - because when we all get back home to our significant others we can pretend like the whole thing never happened. Fortunately my teammates are all socially awkward so when they all look at me funny and call me names like "homewrecker" everyone thinks they're just being weird.
Then outside of swimming, no less than 45-50... when you have a niche you try to fill it. The longest one was about 2-3 months. Then her husband found out and chased me with a bat. Thank God I had my moped hidden under their yacht trailer. I might not have made it!
If you want to know the secrets on how to get them going: you need to have a mullet. Like sex panther - 60% of the time it works everytime.
:rofl: Michael, you really MUST be bored waiting for your October 24th meet to arrive... You're giving Jim a run for his money with your posts. :D
I've only participated in 14 or 15 affairs myself in relation to swimming. Usually they happen when groups of swimmers go to meets so they're only 1-2 night deals. That's ideal - because when we all get back home to our significant others we can pretend like the whole thing never happened. Fortunately my teammates are all socially awkward so when they all look at me funny and call me names like "homewrecker" everyone thinks they're just being weird.
Then outside of swimming, no less than 45-50... when you have a niche you try to fill it. The longest one was about 2-3 months. Then her husband found out and chased me with a bat. Thank God I had my moped hidden under their yacht trailer. I might not have made it!
If you want to know the secrets on how to get them going: you need to have a mullet. Like sex panther - 60% of the time it works everytime.
:rofl: Michael, you really MUST be bored waiting for your October 24th meet to arrive... You're giving Jim a run for his money with your posts. :D
