So that deck changing thread got me thinking, what is normal for public sessions? I'm going back to my UK/USA comparisons........
When I took my kids swimming to the public sessions in the UK, I'd pack up a bag of suits, towels, floats, toys etc and schlepp along to the pool to change in the changing rooms.
Now an FYI 'cos things are different here....Changing rooms consist of a number of cubicles for people to change in private as well as a communal change area and are split between male and female change - although some pools have a changing village with huge family-sized cubicles and no communal change. All modern (ie non-victorian) UK pools have pretty good changing facilities, even those with not much more than a 25m 6 lane pool.
So I take my kids to our local-ish pool here in Texas. 8 lane, 25yd competition pool, plus leisure pool with waterslide, lazy river and kids play structure and walk into the women's locker room.
It is full of lockers and has 2 small benches...eh? Where do I change???
Anyway being a communal-change gal, I get myself and the kids suited up and we swim. We finish swimming, we shower, remove suits wrap ourselves in a towel and dress by one of the benches.
Now whilst drying off and dressing there are a few ladies/kids shuffling around changing in the toilets and dressing in the showers. I get a couple of odd looks standing there in my underwear directing 2 small children to dress as well, but don't care - we're all naked under our clothes after all.
While we were swimming a number of families came in, most it seemed already in their suits, they "undressed" on the deck and when they left they wrapped a towel around the kids or pulled on a t-shirt and that was it. And it wasn't summer! All I could think of was the chlorine eating away at their suits.
So what is normal? and am I the only female living in Texas not afraid to strip down in the women's locker room? :afraid:
And do they build pools here with crappy changing because no-one uses it? Or does no-one use the locker rooms because they're so crappy?
Or is this just a Texas thing, not a USA thing? :D
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I think it depends a lot on age. The college kids (and younger) seem oddly conservative. My personal theory is that high school gym class has changed in the decades since I experien. ced it, and not as many kids these days get their modesty forcibly trained out of them.
:lmao: So true!!
I think where we live, kids from birth are having modesty forcibly trained into them..... I have witnessed a number of moms in the locker room holding towels up round their kids (4-8 yr olds or so) while they change, or ushering them into the toilets :eeew: so no-one sees them...and then people wonder why there is a such a body-image problem among young girls these days.
And there's me, stripping the girls down, drying them off and putting clothes on all in the open - much quicker overall. I am now having to explain to my 6 year old that some people just want to cover up all the time, and that really all girls are the same, just slightly different shapes and sizes. :sigh:
I think it depends a lot on age. The college kids (and younger) seem oddly conservative. My personal theory is that high school gym class has changed in the decades since I experien. ced it, and not as many kids these days get their modesty forcibly trained out of them.
:lmao: So true!!
I think where we live, kids from birth are having modesty forcibly trained into them..... I have witnessed a number of moms in the locker room holding towels up round their kids (4-8 yr olds or so) while they change, or ushering them into the toilets :eeew: so no-one sees them...and then people wonder why there is a such a body-image problem among young girls these days.
And there's me, stripping the girls down, drying them off and putting clothes on all in the open - much quicker overall. I am now having to explain to my 6 year old that some people just want to cover up all the time, and that really all girls are the same, just slightly different shapes and sizes. :sigh:
