What do posters think? Is it better to date or marry another swimmer than a non-swimming athlete or non-athlete? Does it lead to discord or harmony? Too much couple competition? Or more understanding when you want to go to practice or meets all the time? Is swimcest the best?
I notice Cruise married a swimmer ... and we know about Muppet ...
My wife was a high school swimmer but we didn't meet through swimming. We're also musicians and we met when the choir I sang with and the orchestra she played in performed together. Swimming is something I took up just after my children joined the local team. My wife now coaches this team but does not coach me. We tried that and ended up arguing constantly.
Having common activities or hobbies is as important as is having separate ones.
My wife was a high school swimmer but we didn't meet through swimming. We're also musicians and we met when the choir I sang with and the orchestra she played in performed together. Swimming is something I took up just after my children joined the local team. My wife now coaches this team but does not coach me. We tried that and ended up arguing constantly.
Having common activities or hobbies is as important as is having separate ones.
