Proper Etiquette

Former Member
Former Member
What's the proper lane etiquette for the following scenario: You're swimming during common lap swim with two other people who are your speed. The three of you are doing a set workout on specific intervals. You arrived early so you could get a lane. Most other lanes have 2 people in them and are being split. A fourth person who you do not know (but have seen swim before) wants to join your lane since the other lanes are filled with non-competitive swimmer types. This person is quite a bit faster than the three of you are. The three of you still want to do your workout. Do you: a) abandon the workout in order to stay out of this faster guy's way b) tell him he's welcome to join the workout but that he can lead since he's faster (but you still pick the interval) c) tell him he's welcome to join the workout, and try to keep up with him in vain when he swims intervals that are impossible for you to keep.
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  • Former Member
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    Great suggestions. Sometimes I feel bad about not being able to hold a faster pace for the new guy, but then there's not a heck of a lot I can do about it. This month anyway. The last time this happened I was swimming with two girlfriends, and the guy joining us was really cute. He didn't seem to have any objections to swimming our set at our pace either. AND he didn't leave when a lane opened up next to us. With three cute women in the lane who can swim at least reasonably well, what sane single man would move? I told my single gfs that THIS was how to meet quality men. Afterall, I met my husband at the pool. What could be better than a man in a speedo? :D
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  • Former Member
    Former Member
    Great suggestions. Sometimes I feel bad about not being able to hold a faster pace for the new guy, but then there's not a heck of a lot I can do about it. This month anyway. The last time this happened I was swimming with two girlfriends, and the guy joining us was really cute. He didn't seem to have any objections to swimming our set at our pace either. AND he didn't leave when a lane opened up next to us. With three cute women in the lane who can swim at least reasonably well, what sane single man would move? I told my single gfs that THIS was how to meet quality men. Afterall, I met my husband at the pool. What could be better than a man in a speedo? :D
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