Okay, I'm crumbling...the number of new threads, the proliferation of posts...I'm going nutso trying to keep up just reading them, let alone contribute...so how do you guys do it? Primarily the Special K's must have r-e-a-l-l-y potent java to keep up the machine gun rapidity and salacious content of their many posts. At least Tom has help multi-tasking...
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Me stalker not so much ... but the look he gave me when we ran into each other at a football game (mind you there were like 80,000 people at this game so it was indeed weird to run into him there) ... he looked at me like I was stalking him, hadn't seen him since my birthday a few months earlier or since ... I called him once and emailed him once after my birthday (email to say thanks for coming out, call to let him know that a group of us were heading out that night) never heard back from him, I'm over him, just find the whole thing weird.
It really is a good book. Definately changing practically all the views I have had on dating. I started it yesterday, and it's all ready up-rooted most things I thought I knew or had an opinion about. I'm glad I am reading it though, especially since I'm pretty much just starting to date. I've never sat by the phone, but I am guilty of the excuse making. Great book to help me see the error of my ways.
Ande....sad to say that I am writing from experience....yes - sad but true. I've spent too many Sat. nights...eating TV dinners....waiting by the phone until one day I decided " to h*ll with this! I'm goin' OUT" and I never looked back! LOL!
Then a few months ago I found this book, read it, then gave it to a much younger friend. Us girls have gotta pass on the wealth...
Originally posted by ande
"what do the pretty and smart girls like me get told?"
~~~> depends who it is and what they want
but guys probably tell pretty and smart girls
exactly what they think they want to hear
Though I think it's best for a guy to go with
what isn't obvious,
something that requires
close listening, keen observation, cleverness and subtlety.
If she's smart, she'll get it.
Ande
The first compliment I ever gave my wife was that she had beautiful eyes (and still does)! It must have worked - she married me.:D
Right on, Keather. Listen to Dr. Wilkinson...or just call me the Love Doctor! :p
Welcome to my school of hard knocks....
Girls - love yourself first.
Don't take any s**t from anyone
Make sure you have lots and lots of your own interests
When a man tells you he's not interested, believe him!
Work that butterfly (had to throw that one in)
Ok, got all of those down so far ... I'm told I'm a lot to handle and by that I mean, intense and strong personality coupled with self-confidence and a major silly side ...
That's it! Karen left the computer on too long, I sat down to read and...after that last thread I'm getting nervous...I think this hard drive might accidentally crash...yeah, that's it, accidentally crash, yeah...oooooooooooooops......
-Pat
