First swim competition as Masters swimmer (would be from old forum)

Alright, so I guess I started swimming about 4.5 years ago.  Posted here about it.  Doubt anyone other than Elaine recalls, and just her because it turned out that she and 67QueenMum are friends, and she lives in my hometown!

At any rate, had been hoping to do a meet for a while, but things just kept happening.  Then last year when COVID hit, I took up open water swimming.  And since I never had a good situation to train with a team, I kept at the open water stuff because I liked the people.  Decided I'd do the 10K swim the locals host, the Bridges to Bluffs swim.  Coming into this year, I had 3 goals.  I just BARELY missed two of them.  LIke by one minute for each of those (absolute time, and a person I wanted to beat).  Crushed the third goal.  Anyway, this was the first competition I have done in almost 30 years, when I was in high school.  Frist swimming competition in over 35, as I quit swimming at about age 11.

Anyway, I finally did a competition.  Wasn't a pool competition, but I did one.  And am very happy with how it went.

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  • Congrats!  I’ve always appreciated your forum involvement. I read along a lot and wish there was more activity.  I get very nervous about meets too and am currently really scared to try the 500, which has always been an event I love. I lost a lot of confidence being away from the pool during the height of covid and I think the stress aged me a bit too!  Anyway, I’m glad to see more events for those of us who are ready and able.

  • I hear you.  I've been in USMS since 2017 and had 32 swims at meets.  In 2021 our team hosted a meet.  Everyone wore masks until ready to swim event.  I was already terribly nervous and then it felt like the mask hightened that nervousness to full blown anxiety.  I swam HORRIBLY.  Like, I didn't finish TWO events. :(   I cried and cried that night.  So, our team just hosted this year's meet (same meet as last year), and I did not participate.  :(  Why?  I think after having swam 32 events, and then having  a horrible meet that really "got in my head" -  now I'm afraid to ever participate again.  After that 2021 meet my coach had a long talk with me (sports psychology.  I just love her!), but she ended up moving on a month later and our team has been without a coach since then.  So, I missed an opportunity two weeks ago to make better a horrible experience in 2021.  I'm not going to not participate again, but perhaps choose the easiet and least stressful event and do no more than 1 or 2 events.  In the past I would do at least 6.  I know I need to face my fears in order to overcome them.  Anyway, I just wanted to say I hear you and understand.
    And what wonderful encouragement from Elaine Krugman :)   I needed to hear that as well!

  • I am so sorry to hear that happened to you. Severe anxiety and panic can definitely be horrible. I absolutely agree with you to put as little pressure on yourself as possible for the next meet. Just go to be with people and have fun and swim an event or two. Take care of yourself and ease back into it

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  • I am so sorry to hear that happened to you. Severe anxiety and panic can definitely be horrible. I absolutely agree with you to put as little pressure on yourself as possible for the next meet. Just go to be with people and have fun and swim an event or two. Take care of yourself and ease back into it

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