All - a little update from the Summer league for my DD. forums.usms.org/showthread.php
It started a little rough during practice and time trials. But, at the first meet, my daughter went to battle and got 3rd in Butterfly. She kept improving and ended up with a lot of 2nd place ribbons, just getting out touched. She made her way to Medley Relay A. Late in the season, a team mate did beat her best time by .13. But, she remained on Medley Relay A as the other girl was good at *** Stroke. Then a girl popped at Freestyle and my daughter was bumped to B team.
Last meet of the year was incredible. She beat the other girl that was .13 better(not her Personal best though). I remember that she cried after that race and admitted that she wanted to make All Stars. I really thought she was as she did have the second fasted time.
Next day, we find out she didn't make All Stars! The coach went with "Girl C" who was .11 behind her. But, "Girl A" and "Girl C" would be swimming other strokes. Where my daughter would only be doing 1 event.
Needless to say, there were tears and disappointment. And yes, I did email and question the coach. It was a pretty canned response. I get this was a way for the Coach to limit the number of kids and parents. I do get it was close between all 3 girls and any 2 would do well.. Sure, a part of me felt my DD got screwed and my daughter said she might be done.
So what's next??? Talking it over with my wife, we are going to have her do Summer League next year. If it is nothing but to see neighborhood girls and get a great workout, then so be it. I'm going to let her know about some different clinics, etc (more for winter/spring). While what the coach did could be used as motivation, I don't want to "turn her to the dark side". Sure, she needs to get better at a 2nd stroke. Her backstroke improved this year, but wasn't enough.
If anything, my question is how can we get back to fun? Sure, I will try to have her swim with friends. Also, one of the clinics that I identified is every other Sunday put on by a good DII school - so it wouldn't be overkill. I've also thought about offering to pay for some private lessons if she does the clinics and enjoys them.
thoughts?
Though I am now in the 55-59 age group, I was once younger and a pretty good swimmer. My mom would take me to any practice I wanted, including mornings, as long as it was my idea and I was ready to go on time. I also played virtually every other sport up until high school.
I don’t think you can “make” anything fun for your child. All you can do is expose her and let her decide. Good luck.
My two cents
Though I am now in the 55-59 age group, I was once younger and a pretty good swimmer. My mom would take me to any practice I wanted, including mornings, as long as it was my idea and I was ready to go on time. I also played virtually every other sport up until high school.
I don’t think you can “make” anything fun for your child. All you can do is expose her and let her decide. Good luck.
My two cents
