College kids and Burnout

So, my son is a college swimmer, home for the summer before his Senior year. He's swimming three times a week, at most, going to the gym 2-3 x a week. He says he is transitioning to other things. I don't get it! He had a 2 year break between his sophomore and junior years while he went to Europe. You'd think that he would want to really get back in shape and go out with a bang, but he acts like being just an average swimmer is ok. Here I am wishing I could put MORE time into swimming and I can't, and he has plenty of time, and won't! I've tried to persuade him to give this last year all he's got, but I think I'm fighting a losing battle. And I don't want a battle. Feeling sad, cuz it's the end of an era.
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  • If your primary reason for going to college is for the "college experience" you don't belong in college. It sounds like the OP's son is just recharging though. Everyone needs downtime. 4-6 workouts per week isn't being a couch potato.
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  • If your primary reason for going to college is for the "college experience" you don't belong in college. It sounds like the OP's son is just recharging though. Everyone needs downtime. 4-6 workouts per week isn't being a couch potato.
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