Unsolicited Advice

Former Member
Former Member
Do you offer unsolicited advice to other swimmers at the pool? Fix their form? Give workout suggestions? Etc. Or do you keep your mouth shut?
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  • Former Member
    Former Member
    I am inclined to think most people are self-aware and want to do their own thing, but the other day I saw something and finally had to open my big mouth. A guy had been working on backstroke for like 30 minutes -- not just swimming a few lengths of the pool here or there -- he had easily gone 500+ yards. He was doing two things that can cause shoulder problems so I pointed them out. I emphasized my point was only to prevent injuries. Obviously the guy wasn't training in a competitive sense, but I didn't want to be a part of letting someone hurt themselves. But I got to thinking about it afterwards...safety or not, there is a boundary that should be observed. I wouldn't tell a retail store employee how to wrangle shopping carts in the parking lot, and I wouldn't tell a waitress how to carry hot plates of food around a restaurant.
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  • Former Member
    Former Member
    I am inclined to think most people are self-aware and want to do their own thing, but the other day I saw something and finally had to open my big mouth. A guy had been working on backstroke for like 30 minutes -- not just swimming a few lengths of the pool here or there -- he had easily gone 500+ yards. He was doing two things that can cause shoulder problems so I pointed them out. I emphasized my point was only to prevent injuries. Obviously the guy wasn't training in a competitive sense, but I didn't want to be a part of letting someone hurt themselves. But I got to thinking about it afterwards...safety or not, there is a boundary that should be observed. I wouldn't tell a retail store employee how to wrangle shopping carts in the parking lot, and I wouldn't tell a waitress how to carry hot plates of food around a restaurant.
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