My kid is a terrific swimmer - to a degree. He has Jr.Nat's cuts & has even placed quite high at things like JO's & Sr.Champs. However, he does best when he comes in 9th. He can swim super fast in Prelims, but if he comes into finals higher than 9th, he seldom (if ever) improves upon his morning time. If he is 9th or worse, he will always improve & so may have two best times in one day. I have to say, I think he likes being the big fish in the small pond - if he seriously outclasses everyone, he often will do a best time then, as well. I think he has a psychological block or something about performing well in finals & other high pressure situations, but I don't know how to help him get past it. Also, I don't want to screw him up by saying something stupid! He has one more big meet this year, and then he is going into semi-retirement for 2 years, so I'd love to see him perform at his best. Can anyone help me/him?
OMG, you guys make me sound so horrid! I am NOT the split taking critique person you are making me out to be! (I hardly even cheer at the meets!) BUT his coach is NOT such a great coach (don't get me started!!) he happens to be the only game in town - the next closest team is 2.5 hours away, so we have what we have. And he doesn't really communicate with his coach, but he does with me.
BUT, you are right that big changes probably should not be made right before the big meet of the season. I know he is extremely motivated - I think he just has some kind of subconscious hang up, and wish I could help. Thanks for the positive suggestions that have been made.
OMG, you guys make me sound so horrid! I am NOT the split taking critique person you are making me out to be! (I hardly even cheer at the meets!) BUT his coach is NOT such a great coach (don't get me started!!) he happens to be the only game in town - the next closest team is 2.5 hours away, so we have what we have. And he doesn't really communicate with his coach, but he does with me.
BUT, you are right that big changes probably should not be made right before the big meet of the season. I know he is extremely motivated - I think he just has some kind of subconscious hang up, and wish I could help. Thanks for the positive suggestions that have been made.
