Sounds simple, right? It is, if everyone cooperates.
When overtaking someone in your lane (presuming freestyle is being swum), tap their foot on one stroke so they will not be surprised to see you so close behind. Wait for a couple of strokes to find out what they intend to do and pass accordingly.
Tap the foot. That is the signal that you want to pass. Surprise is unwelcome in most practice lanes.
When swimming in a lane with others and someone taps your foot, that means they want to pass. It doesn't mean they want to race. It doesn't mean they want to talk or fight. They are overtaking you in a swim and want to continue their pace with the least amount of consternation on anyone's part. If your foot gets tapped, there are exactly two appropriate ways to respond. #1- if you are swimming long course and have been tapped in the middle of the pool, slow down a little and move to the right, hugging the lane line. The passing party will be by in a moment and you will be able to continue apace, both satisfied that no meaningful time was lost in the exchange. #2 - if you are in short course lanes, swim to the end of the lane as far right as possible, grabbing the wall for an open turn. This will give the overtaking swimmer plenty of room to pass on the left and you will be able to draft off of him for a little while.
When your foot is tapped, it is not a signal to speed up. There are no swimmers alive that have never been passed in workout. I occasionally will be passed and do the passing in the same workout. It is not a point of honor, it is workout. It is not a signal to stop. All that accomplishes is to mess up both swimmers' workouts and clog up a lane for other swimmers.
You are not alone in the lane, don't act like you are. If your lane mates all want you to go first, don't waste time being demure, even if you know they are faster. Just go and make them pass you a few times and the lane order will even out. Talk to one another (only when the coach is not talking) to decide how passing will be done and everyone is happy.
I agree that toe taps are only necessary if the lead swimmer is either clueless or stubborn. I personally haven't had to do much toe tapping as a Master, mostly because everybody in my lane is usually faster than me, but also because people are generally aware of the other swimmers in their lane and automatically move to let the faster swimmer pass.
I do on occasion turn in the middle when it's a warmup set or something like that too. I don't want to mess up a slower swimmer's flow if I don't have to.
But as a kid it was a whole different story. Nobody wanted to let you pass. I'm pretty sure I was as bad as anybody on this. We used to have to grab ankles and pull people backwards to get around them! :D
I agree that toe taps are only necessary if the lead swimmer is either clueless or stubborn. I personally haven't had to do much toe tapping as a Master, mostly because everybody in my lane is usually faster than me, but also because people are generally aware of the other swimmers in their lane and automatically move to let the faster swimmer pass.
I do on occasion turn in the middle when it's a warmup set or something like that too. I don't want to mess up a slower swimmer's flow if I don't have to.
But as a kid it was a whole different story. Nobody wanted to let you pass. I'm pretty sure I was as bad as anybody on this. We used to have to grab ankles and pull people backwards to get around them! :D