Mental Health and Swimming During Covid

My masters swim group has aquired a new "permanent" member.  He is a transplant to Florida from the Chicagoland area. He has very strong far right political beliefs and has no inhibitions about voicing them to anybody that is around. Several times this past winter when many of us would show up in the pre-dawn hours for swim practice, he would be out in the dark parking lot yelling at us to "put our diapers on".  Yes, he is a groan man standing out in a dark parking lot yelling at early arriving swimmers that are wearing masks to "put our diapers on".  I mentioned this to coach and he said he is familiar with this guy and that the man is harmless.  He just has strong opinions.  I expressed my concern that this guy is verbally aggressive and I wondered outloud that I hope he doesn't have a gun in his car.  The response that coach recommended and that I have been using is to ignore him. My guess is, between the pandemic and the current political environment in the USA, it is probably safe to say that in the past 12 months nearly everyone has been stressed. But all the same,, I wonder, what kind of adult does this behavior?  Is he sane?  Is ignoring him really the best approach to take? Does he have a gun in his car?  I am putting this out to the general masters swimming community.

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  • I agree you should not confront him or interact  any more than necessary. I think, however the coach has a responsibility to create a positive culture for the team Maybe the coach is dealing with it in his own way and making progress, or maybe he isn't  This guy has the potential to run off a lot of people who aren't willing to put up with this BS. If the coach is handling it he should privately share that with others before the team falls apart. One bad apple can spoil it for everyone

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  • I agree you should not confront him or interact  any more than necessary. I think, however the coach has a responsibility to create a positive culture for the team Maybe the coach is dealing with it in his own way and making progress, or maybe he isn't  This guy has the potential to run off a lot of people who aren't willing to put up with this BS. If the coach is handling it he should privately share that with others before the team falls apart. One bad apple can spoil it for everyone

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