Okay, I'm crumbling...the number of new threads, the proliferation of posts...I'm going nutso trying to keep up just reading them, let alone contribute...so how do you guys do it? Primarily the Special K's must have r-e-a-l-l-y potent java to keep up the machine gun rapidity and salacious content of their many posts. At least Tom has help multi-tasking...
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How old are you? Happy Birthday!!!
I'll be 40 on the 29th!!! Can't wait! 40 and freakin' fabulous!!!
lol ... Kari, you really are the coolest!
Dima, go ahead and tell her you really like her, hold back on the love thing ... that's a big deal, make sure first (like really sure, wait at LEAST another month or two) ... SO EXCITING!
Originally posted by hooked-on-swimming
I turned 25 on the 2nd of may.Man, I am on the wrong side of the 20s now. I was 23 love at first sight. 49 years ago and still in love. Tell em what you think.
George
Yeah, George, I must respectfully disagree ... I would tell her that you really like her and are having a great time, can't wait to get to know her better, even you are falling for her ... but if after (what a month?) a guy said he loved me I'd run so fast in the other direction there'd be nothing but a trail of dust behind me ... perhaps, this is why I am not dating anyone currently ... hmmm ...
Dima....go to a huge NBA Fianls game...or area baseball game...pull your Levis off down to your underwear toss your shirt off....run out on the floor.....with magic marker printed on your chest with, "Marry me Jane Doe for I love you...Dima...!"
That will do the trick....big time....
One second thought....sit back and enjoy the time you have together....when the time is right for you to express your feelings....BOTH of you will know.....and it will flow as smooth as a still clear lake in the morning....
Originally posted by SwiminONandON
Yeah, George, I must respectfully disagree ... I would tell her that you really like her and are having a great time, can't wait to get to know her better, even you are falling for her ... but if after (what a month?) a guy said he loved me I'd run so fast in the other direction there'd be nothing but a trail of dust behind me ... perhaps, this is why I am not dating anyone currently ... hmmm ...
You have to tell them how it is or nothing will ever come from it. Although I had met Chuckie when she was 15, tooo young, again when she was 18, then 19 first date. That was it. I could not take her to the Olympics things in her catholic up bringing you know, eg. she went to school in the convent. No messing around.
George
Originally posted by Tom Ellison
Dima....go to a huge NBA Fianls game...or area baseball game...pull your Levis off down to your underwear toss your shirt off....run out on the floor.....with magic marker printed on your chest with, "Marry me Jane Doe for I love you...Dima...!"
That will do the trick....big time....
One second thought....sit back and enjoy the time you have together....when the time is right for you to express your feelings....BOTH of you will know.....and it will flow as smooth as a still clear lake in the morning....
Tom, that is COOL!I love the idea.Fortunately enough I am crazy enough to do something like that, lol, I like extraordinary actions like that.Maybe you will see me on TV some day doing exactly that while watching a game, lol.But for now, I will hold off, at least a month, I agree...
I do absolutely think it's ok to call her often, and express to her that you really like her, like spending time with her, can't wait to get to know her better, etc. And bring her flowers!
Dima- something like "I've never been in love before, so I don't know what that feels like, but I'm already having deep feelings for you...and you know what? I like feeling that way" (and don't share the fact that you're receiving coaching over the internet).
