This weekend was our Pacific Masters Championships. It was a close battle between WCM and USF and I don't know who won at this very moment. I don't care.
You see, I left right before the 1000 today (the last event) right after the last relays. I watched some great swims today. Amazing swims. My friend Brendon swam a 2:03 200 fly and really hit his taper (as he's not going to Nationals)- we were teasing about how he does really well the week after a tapered meet. He seemed to finally figure it out this time.
My friend Stephen called me tonight and told me that Brendon also had a great 1000, was warming down, had a heart attack and died. He was 35. I was stunned. I've been crying since then trying to make sense of it all. It doesn't make sense.
I called some other friends and no one else can believe it either. Suddenly, the meet doesn't matter, swimming doesn't matter, what matters is that we lost a really great guy today. He was always so happy, funny, and loved to tell jokes. He was really good natured and fun to be around. I will miss him terribly.
Karen,
I was stunned when I saw Michael Moore's email this morning & instantly became teary-eyed. I am so sorry for your loss. You are right about perspective. Facing death makes you realize that tomorrow is promised to no-one.
I love your idea about a swimming community. Just thinking of it makes me feel peaceful.
It was great seeing you this weekend. My heartfelt condolences to everyone close to Brendon. Give yourself a hug & I'll see you at the pool.
Kira
Hi Kira, (extending cyber hand), nice to meet you! I swim for Davis Aquatic Masters; discussion board junkie, maker of new swimming friends via USMS, worshipper of anyone who can swim an IM, and cannot spell today.
How are you?
Karen,
My deepest sympathies for your loss.
When I experience a loss like this, it reminds me to love my family a little more, swim a little harder, enjoy life more often. You just never know when it will be your time or a loved one's time.
Paul Scansaroli
