This has probably been covered before, and I know what the "organization" would say, but I want the truth from those of you that are serious members. If I showed up, a 29 year-old mom of three who is about 30 lbs overweight but was once a good swimmer and has continued lap swimming all these years since high-school and would take her committment seriously, to your practice and wanted to join, how would you feel? What if you had to pass me by a few times because I slowed you down? But...at the same time you saw me working hard in my ability and pushing myself farther and fasther each day - would you snicker behind my back, would others? Should I continue swimming on my own and trying to get in shape before I join?
It is ok to be honest. I would tell you the truth. And please, don't yell at me for worrying about what others think.
Thanks everyone!
Parents
Former Member
Nicole,
My suggestion as a swimmer and a coach would be go ahead and jump in. I have worked with swimmers of all levels, abilities and goals. Hopefully the team you decide to join has a coach or at least a workout leader who can help guide you into a proper fit (I would hazard a guess that there are going to be swimmers faster and slower than you). Most masters swimmers are very accepting and understanding, so you shouldn't be worried about ineterfering because you are not fast/good enough. If you decide to try a team and you get the impression you are inconvenience to their workout - would you really want to swim with a group like that ? There is probably another program nearby (maybe not as convenient) but would be more accepting. Just like buying a new car - sure it runs and it will get you from here to there, but if you had the resources wouldn't you rather drive something you want that would be more functional. Good luck and happy swimming.
Jeff
Nicole,
My suggestion as a swimmer and a coach would be go ahead and jump in. I have worked with swimmers of all levels, abilities and goals. Hopefully the team you decide to join has a coach or at least a workout leader who can help guide you into a proper fit (I would hazard a guess that there are going to be swimmers faster and slower than you). Most masters swimmers are very accepting and understanding, so you shouldn't be worried about ineterfering because you are not fast/good enough. If you decide to try a team and you get the impression you are inconvenience to their workout - would you really want to swim with a group like that ? There is probably another program nearby (maybe not as convenient) but would be more accepting. Just like buying a new car - sure it runs and it will get you from here to there, but if you had the resources wouldn't you rather drive something you want that would be more functional. Good luck and happy swimming.
Jeff
